Very Sad ..... Bikers, Beware....... :-{
Hi all…..
Yesterday morning, as usual, I was happily cruising down one of the empty stretches en route to my workplace. I will, usually, be in a world of my own with no snarling traffic or any eventful/ uneventful incident to lapse my concentration. This moment, yesterday, was very short-lived as one untoward event manages to divert my attention, well, in a bloody manner.
A plume of dust gathered in a violent way to draw my attention. And when it cleared a bit, I spotted a bike on the ground with a person – seemingly the rider himself - immediately next to it. And an elderly poor man was lying on the middle of the road. I expected him to at least budge away from that point as it was a road frequented by some of the most ill-mannered drivers. Even the most disciplined can’t help running him down if he lays this way. Luckily, the road was deserted which meant even prolonged stint at the same location meant no further damage was wreaked.
Crowd gathered at a rapid pace. I immediately parked my bike and scampered to lift the old man off that perilous place. Folks, his face and his state was heart-rending. He was at least 75 and was bleeding profusely from his head sustaining wounds on his hand and leg. I immediately gathered his belongings that was strewn across the ground and headed to stop a car to take this old man to a nearby hospital. I was cocksure the very first vehicle would halt and lend his helping hand but I was proved wrong. The conventional TV/film scenes of cars on the highway shrugging off this kinda incident prevailed. Some people with managerial image plastered on the face driving the likes of Santro just ignored my pleading request.
In the mean time, the biker, who was also hurt, diverted people’s attention fabricating and narrating a different tale in spur of the moment. He was drumming up support saying a car knocked both of them down and fled the scene. Since it was only the fall that caught my attention I wasn’t sure who was the real culprit. Is it the biker or was it really a car as the biker tells. He was shell-shocked and I mean it, as his face was in such a state of fear. He could not speak. Words were flowing out incoherently. But he was also begging and pleading the oncoming cars along with me to fetch him to hospital.
Anyway, after repeated attempts to stop a car, one “human” stopped and offered to help. One lifted his torso and I lifted his legs and placed him into the car. 2 of the bystanders went into the car along with him. And the car sped off to a nearby hospital. And the biker also left the scene literally in a tearing hurry. Hope the old man is safe now. I was in a double bind as to proceed to the hospital or to carry on with my trip to office. I chose the latter after thinking for few moments as there was already a couple of people accompanying on top of 2 guys in the car. And the hospital was very much at sight – hardly 2-3 minutes. I was content [to some extent] with stopping a car and making them take him to a hospital.
In hindsight, I was contemplating what could I have done better amid this chaos or what could the biker have done had he really been the culprit.
POINT 1:
Firstly, I was angry with the biker, who, according to me, was the culprit. I don’t remember seeing a car knocking them down. But since I was not sure about this, I refrained from squaring the blame plainly on him.
His position was also understandable as he didn’t flee the scene and was frantic in his attempts to get the hurt man to the hospital.
I, again, thought; would anyone have the guts to claim responsibility of running someone down that to amid an unknown horde of people? Police case and local thugs resorting to extortion citing some cheap points – making business out of this pitiful and untoward event – are well known.
Even if he had done, chances are that the attention would have shifted to either beating him down or hurling him with abuses instead of expediting the act of helping the old guy.
What if my close friend was in a similar position? Would I go ahead in handing him over to police custody or would I try to play it down at any cost by fabricating an equally plausible story from my end?
Most importantly, what kind of treatment would I want to be meted out to me should I be held in the biker’s shoes?
I even thought at least, that biker could have accompanied the injured to the hospital at least to foot the bill that’s gonna arise out of the treatment, which he failed to do so. What if the old man identifies him as the culprit after getting back to normalcy?
POINT 2:
Secondly, the speeding cars. What stops people from taking injured and suffering people, who are fighting for their lives, on their car? I cannot fathom the reasoning behind it. For some, still, is the blood-stain on their seats matter more than the injured person’s life?
On this front, I thought; what would I have done had I been driving a car and someone begs for help?
Trust me, I was more than 100% sure I would have stopped by and would have proceeded with offering help.
Or did they think stopping their car would result in a police case where they might have to play some part no matter how trivial it is?
Still, a silly point to ponder especially in such a situation.
Or they whizzed past without helping just like that without even a rational reasoning? – Just “Why to unnecessarily get into trouble” attitude?
This is dastardly, atrocious and unacceptable. Would they stand and smile in the future if they were given a taste of their own poisonous medicine by equally careless onlookers and bystanders in case of a grave mishap playing with their lives?
If people are asked to choose between “helping the injured with a lift on their car” and “shrugging off”, looks like majority of them would choose the latter. Pathetic.
It’s an uphill task for anybody to avoid accidents as we all are caught unawares while meeting up with one. But, I still cannot forgive the ones fleeing the scene just like the car guys did.
Accident is beyond control and even the person who inadvertently triggered it could even be condoned but not the owners of the car who shrug off the incident. The accident causer has no choice but these car owners have choices to choose from.
In my perspective, it is these car owners’ act which is more horrendous than even the biker's, who allegedly caused the accident.
POINT 3:
Here comes our subject – BIKERS…!!!!!!! Had it not been for the careless and reckless ride of that biker, this old man would have walked his way to his destination. If his tale of a car knocking the old man was true, excuse me.
School zone, market area, temples, outright residential area are some places where I witness some fast and reckless riding by most bikers. Ironically, these are the places where one has to keep his speed under check.
Last week, when I was coming back home where my mom was sitting pillion, I was hurt. Whenever I carry a pillion, I deliberately move at snail’s pace averting potential dangers of fast biking. It was a small street and I was doing 25-30 kmph. A school girl on her bicycle, who was holding a steady line till now, turned back, probably to adjust her bag or just like that – came diagonally opposite me and the cycle pedal hit my legs. My toes are hurt pretty badly, which I am continuing to nurse. This incident happened in split second.
Nail is partially broken despite wearing shoes. And the wound under the nail is still hurting me. No one fell that day. Majority of the blame has to be on the school girl while I could also have avoided the accident by being extra cautious. Had my mom not been there with me and had the girl fallen down and had there been people watching this, I’d be the person bearing the brunt of the girl’s mistake.
But the slow pace – which I stick to in busy streets, or when I am with a pillion – saved me, my mom, and the girl. I don’t grudge the girl either as I was far more rash on my bicycle in my school days. And the school zone and normal streets rightfully belong to kids and pedestrians just like the highways are for the bigger machines. And we bikers just don’t belong there let alone rocketing down those small roads.
No matter what the accident looks like, how many people are injured or no matter which party is culpable of that incident, the biker image is all geared up to hold you at the receiving end of a real raw deal. If the bike is a Puslar, Yamaha, Apache, Zma or any other bike dressed up in racy fairing, that’ll be the last straw in getting you convicted of the crime.
The bottomline is – BIKERS need to be ultra careful while on the highway or any other place for that matter. Try your best in foreseeing any impending danger and avoiding it. We bikers need to save ourselves, the peers on the road and the image of the bikers at large, especially in the face of plunging respect for bike-borne(s).
POINT 4:
Anyway, after seeing this incident at close quarters, several thoughts raced through my mind. I just wanted to share this with you all. If at all that biker was a culprit, I am sure, his conscience would do the needful. In this case, luckily, I was there at the scene of the accident and the victim was rushed to hospital in no time. It’s usually a road deserted especially around 11 in the morning. And the hospital was just a stone’s throw from that place.
What if there was no one around and a poor man is suffering for his life and you alone are there? No one expects these kinds of incident to be faced with and when you face, you’ll, for sure, be unsettled which won’t result in any rational and sensible action. On this count, a little homework can help.
a. Noting down nearest hospital number.
b. Knowing the hospitals that are nearby your home-workplace route.
c. Knowing the helpline numbers – ambulance and police.
d. Having a first aid kit with you.
e. Or at least be normal enough to call someone to seek help.
Everyone cannot be expected to carry a smart act in the light of grave instances and on these occasions, a little homework by foreseeing some of gory things that might require our help, can be paramount in helping us keeping our cool and letting us do at least the not-so-dumb things.
At the end of the day, I am at least happy that I could jump into action and acted like a human if not like a Good Samaritan. Literally, when you get a chance to help someone like the poor old man, it feels good. Makes you feel that you aren’t that bad. We can be replete with confidence that there would be people to come and help me should I lie on the road injured (TOUCHWOOD). Some might even say I must have gone to the hospital and followed up on his condition. Some might say, in today’s world, it was good that you ensured the man was taken to hospital. But at the end of the day, helping the needy gives you a feeling of content and gives me the right to whine and blame if I am left helpless while injured. And I can also be confident that I can do a better job next time around should I witness an incident on same lines [TOUCHWOOD, again].
Anyway, what would have been your actions had you been one of the following?
a. The biker, who allegedly caused this mishap.
b.Car owner driving past taking notice of people’s plea to take the victim to hospital
c. A bystander
Also, chip in with your points to what can we be armed with when we face things like these, so that we don’t falter at the hour of need and perform some sensible and sincere action, and of course, end up setting an example, well, a good one at least for the fact that some day, our dear ones don't remain helpless because of cringing pubic and careless people!!!!!
Yesterday morning, as usual, I was happily cruising down one of the empty stretches en route to my workplace. I will, usually, be in a world of my own with no snarling traffic or any eventful/ uneventful incident to lapse my concentration. This moment, yesterday, was very short-lived as one untoward event manages to divert my attention, well, in a bloody manner.
A plume of dust gathered in a violent way to draw my attention. And when it cleared a bit, I spotted a bike on the ground with a person – seemingly the rider himself - immediately next to it. And an elderly poor man was lying on the middle of the road. I expected him to at least budge away from that point as it was a road frequented by some of the most ill-mannered drivers. Even the most disciplined can’t help running him down if he lays this way. Luckily, the road was deserted which meant even prolonged stint at the same location meant no further damage was wreaked.
Crowd gathered at a rapid pace. I immediately parked my bike and scampered to lift the old man off that perilous place. Folks, his face and his state was heart-rending. He was at least 75 and was bleeding profusely from his head sustaining wounds on his hand and leg. I immediately gathered his belongings that was strewn across the ground and headed to stop a car to take this old man to a nearby hospital. I was cocksure the very first vehicle would halt and lend his helping hand but I was proved wrong. The conventional TV/film scenes of cars on the highway shrugging off this kinda incident prevailed. Some people with managerial image plastered on the face driving the likes of Santro just ignored my pleading request.
In the mean time, the biker, who was also hurt, diverted people’s attention fabricating and narrating a different tale in spur of the moment. He was drumming up support saying a car knocked both of them down and fled the scene. Since it was only the fall that caught my attention I wasn’t sure who was the real culprit. Is it the biker or was it really a car as the biker tells. He was shell-shocked and I mean it, as his face was in such a state of fear. He could not speak. Words were flowing out incoherently. But he was also begging and pleading the oncoming cars along with me to fetch him to hospital.
Anyway, after repeated attempts to stop a car, one “human” stopped and offered to help. One lifted his torso and I lifted his legs and placed him into the car. 2 of the bystanders went into the car along with him. And the car sped off to a nearby hospital. And the biker also left the scene literally in a tearing hurry. Hope the old man is safe now. I was in a double bind as to proceed to the hospital or to carry on with my trip to office. I chose the latter after thinking for few moments as there was already a couple of people accompanying on top of 2 guys in the car. And the hospital was very much at sight – hardly 2-3 minutes. I was content [to some extent] with stopping a car and making them take him to a hospital.
In hindsight, I was contemplating what could I have done better amid this chaos or what could the biker have done had he really been the culprit.
POINT 1:
Firstly, I was angry with the biker, who, according to me, was the culprit. I don’t remember seeing a car knocking them down. But since I was not sure about this, I refrained from squaring the blame plainly on him.
His position was also understandable as he didn’t flee the scene and was frantic in his attempts to get the hurt man to the hospital.
I, again, thought; would anyone have the guts to claim responsibility of running someone down that to amid an unknown horde of people? Police case and local thugs resorting to extortion citing some cheap points – making business out of this pitiful and untoward event – are well known.
Even if he had done, chances are that the attention would have shifted to either beating him down or hurling him with abuses instead of expediting the act of helping the old guy.
What if my close friend was in a similar position? Would I go ahead in handing him over to police custody or would I try to play it down at any cost by fabricating an equally plausible story from my end?
Most importantly, what kind of treatment would I want to be meted out to me should I be held in the biker’s shoes?
I even thought at least, that biker could have accompanied the injured to the hospital at least to foot the bill that’s gonna arise out of the treatment, which he failed to do so. What if the old man identifies him as the culprit after getting back to normalcy?
POINT 2:
Secondly, the speeding cars. What stops people from taking injured and suffering people, who are fighting for their lives, on their car? I cannot fathom the reasoning behind it. For some, still, is the blood-stain on their seats matter more than the injured person’s life?
On this front, I thought; what would I have done had I been driving a car and someone begs for help?
Trust me, I was more than 100% sure I would have stopped by and would have proceeded with offering help.
Or did they think stopping their car would result in a police case where they might have to play some part no matter how trivial it is?
Still, a silly point to ponder especially in such a situation.
Or they whizzed past without helping just like that without even a rational reasoning? – Just “Why to unnecessarily get into trouble” attitude?
This is dastardly, atrocious and unacceptable. Would they stand and smile in the future if they were given a taste of their own poisonous medicine by equally careless onlookers and bystanders in case of a grave mishap playing with their lives?
If people are asked to choose between “helping the injured with a lift on their car” and “shrugging off”, looks like majority of them would choose the latter. Pathetic.
It’s an uphill task for anybody to avoid accidents as we all are caught unawares while meeting up with one. But, I still cannot forgive the ones fleeing the scene just like the car guys did.
Accident is beyond control and even the person who inadvertently triggered it could even be condoned but not the owners of the car who shrug off the incident. The accident causer has no choice but these car owners have choices to choose from.
In my perspective, it is these car owners’ act which is more horrendous than even the biker's, who allegedly caused the accident.
POINT 3:
Here comes our subject – BIKERS…!!!!!!! Had it not been for the careless and reckless ride of that biker, this old man would have walked his way to his destination. If his tale of a car knocking the old man was true, excuse me.
School zone, market area, temples, outright residential area are some places where I witness some fast and reckless riding by most bikers. Ironically, these are the places where one has to keep his speed under check.
Last week, when I was coming back home where my mom was sitting pillion, I was hurt. Whenever I carry a pillion, I deliberately move at snail’s pace averting potential dangers of fast biking. It was a small street and I was doing 25-30 kmph. A school girl on her bicycle, who was holding a steady line till now, turned back, probably to adjust her bag or just like that – came diagonally opposite me and the cycle pedal hit my legs. My toes are hurt pretty badly, which I am continuing to nurse. This incident happened in split second.
Nail is partially broken despite wearing shoes. And the wound under the nail is still hurting me. No one fell that day. Majority of the blame has to be on the school girl while I could also have avoided the accident by being extra cautious. Had my mom not been there with me and had the girl fallen down and had there been people watching this, I’d be the person bearing the brunt of the girl’s mistake.
But the slow pace – which I stick to in busy streets, or when I am with a pillion – saved me, my mom, and the girl. I don’t grudge the girl either as I was far more rash on my bicycle in my school days. And the school zone and normal streets rightfully belong to kids and pedestrians just like the highways are for the bigger machines. And we bikers just don’t belong there let alone rocketing down those small roads.
No matter what the accident looks like, how many people are injured or no matter which party is culpable of that incident, the biker image is all geared up to hold you at the receiving end of a real raw deal. If the bike is a Puslar, Yamaha, Apache, Zma or any other bike dressed up in racy fairing, that’ll be the last straw in getting you convicted of the crime.
The bottomline is – BIKERS need to be ultra careful while on the highway or any other place for that matter. Try your best in foreseeing any impending danger and avoiding it. We bikers need to save ourselves, the peers on the road and the image of the bikers at large, especially in the face of plunging respect for bike-borne(s).
POINT 4:
Anyway, after seeing this incident at close quarters, several thoughts raced through my mind. I just wanted to share this with you all. If at all that biker was a culprit, I am sure, his conscience would do the needful. In this case, luckily, I was there at the scene of the accident and the victim was rushed to hospital in no time. It’s usually a road deserted especially around 11 in the morning. And the hospital was just a stone’s throw from that place.
What if there was no one around and a poor man is suffering for his life and you alone are there? No one expects these kinds of incident to be faced with and when you face, you’ll, for sure, be unsettled which won’t result in any rational and sensible action. On this count, a little homework can help.
a. Noting down nearest hospital number.
b. Knowing the hospitals that are nearby your home-workplace route.
c. Knowing the helpline numbers – ambulance and police.
d. Having a first aid kit with you.
e. Or at least be normal enough to call someone to seek help.
Everyone cannot be expected to carry a smart act in the light of grave instances and on these occasions, a little homework by foreseeing some of gory things that might require our help, can be paramount in helping us keeping our cool and letting us do at least the not-so-dumb things.
At the end of the day, I am at least happy that I could jump into action and acted like a human if not like a Good Samaritan. Literally, when you get a chance to help someone like the poor old man, it feels good. Makes you feel that you aren’t that bad. We can be replete with confidence that there would be people to come and help me should I lie on the road injured (TOUCHWOOD). Some might even say I must have gone to the hospital and followed up on his condition. Some might say, in today’s world, it was good that you ensured the man was taken to hospital. But at the end of the day, helping the needy gives you a feeling of content and gives me the right to whine and blame if I am left helpless while injured. And I can also be confident that I can do a better job next time around should I witness an incident on same lines [TOUCHWOOD, again].
Anyway, what would have been your actions had you been one of the following?
a. The biker, who allegedly caused this mishap.
b.Car owner driving past taking notice of people’s plea to take the victim to hospital
c. A bystander
Also, chip in with your points to what can we be armed with when we face things like these, so that we don’t falter at the hour of need and perform some sensible and sincere action, and of course, end up setting an example, well, a good one at least for the fact that some day, our dear ones don't remain helpless because of cringing pubic and careless people!!!!!